Candle Hour:

Sacred Space for Grief

Inspired by the poem “When You Meet Someone in Deep Grief” (below), on or near the New Moon of each month we gather by the candlelight on Zoom for Candle Hour.

This is a sacred time to honor your grief by doing - or not doing - whatever feels supportive to your body and spirit in that moment

Videos off, no participation required. You can light a candle to open the space. Sometimes there’s music other times we gather in silence.

As the poem instructs, we let the candle speak.

When You Meet Someone Deep in Grief

by Patricia McKernon Runkle

Slip off your needs

and set them by the door.

Enter barefoot

this darkened chapel

hallowed by loss

hallowed by sorrow

its grey stone walls

and floor.

You, congregation

of one

are here to listen

not to sing.

Kneel in the back pew.

Make no sound,

let the candles

speak.